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Jaye Fenderson

Jaye Fenderson

Jaye is a college advice columnist for Seventeen.com and the author of the forthcoming Seventeen's Guide to Getting Into College, a comprehensive college guidebook available from Hearst Books in August 2008. As a former senior admission officer at Columbia University, Jaye recognized a need for greater awareness about the college admission process and decided to use the medium of entertainment to educate students and families about what it takes to get into college.

In 2005, Jaye co-created and produced ABC’s The Scholar, an unscripted television drama that gave 10 high school seniors the chance to compete for a full ride college scholarship. Jaye is currently in production as producer and director of the feature-length documentary film First Generation.

Jaye has 8 years of film and television experience directing documentary-style interviews, producing television shows and short films, and casting such shows as 30 Days, Laguna Beach: The Real OC, The Simple Life, I’m With Rolling Stone, and Moves. She has been interviewed by USA Today, US News & World Report, The Chronicle of Higher Education, and Inside Higher Ed, and has published numerous articles on college admission. Jaye graduated from Columbia University with a Bachelor of Arts in English and French.

Reinventing Miss America

So, I’m curious: can anyone name the current titleholder of Miss America …without using Google? Yeah, I couldn’t either nor could any of my friends and coworkers I surveyed over lunch. But if you keep up with the latest goss then you’re familiar with Miss South Carolina Teen USA (thanks, YouTube), know that Tara Conner almost lost her 2006 Miss USA crown to partying, and have read recent headlines posing a possible twist in the Miss Puerto Rico pepper spray incident. It would seem nowadays being a damsel in distress is a surefire way to make an impression on the public conscience, but what of being a contestant on the once highly-rated Miss America pageant?

I used to be a fan. Up until the age of 8 or 9, watching the Miss America pageant on television generated almost as much excitement as the annual airing of The Wizard of Oz or The Jerry Lewis Telethon. I thought those girls were soooooo beautiful with their big hair, sparkly gowns and perfect smiles. I loved being on the edge of my seat cheering for my favorite states to win the crown. But it wasn’t long before I lost interest, and apparently I’m not the only one. Due to a significant drop in ratings, ABC stopped airing the pageant in 2004. It was briefly picked up by Country Music Television (CMT), and now its latest home is on The Learning Channel (TLC) where it makes its debut this January.

It may seem like an unlikely topic for a Damsels in Success forum, but I have my husband to thank for my current musings on the pageant system. He’s currently an editor for Miss America: Reality Check—a four-week hour-long special leading up to the pageant that promises to give Miss America a facelift “you have to see to believe”--and it got me wondering how other damsels feel about this nearly century old beauty contest.

A quote from the Miss America website reads: "Miss America represents the highest ideals. She is a real combination of beauty, grace, and intelligence, artistic and refined. She is a type which the American Girl might well emulate." At one time it seems this was true, but do women today really look to Miss America as a representation of the best in beauty, talent, and intelligence? If my very unscientific lunchtime survey is at all indicative, it would appear they don’t.

I’m pretty sure we can all probably name a handful of beautiful women deserving of a more modern version of the Miss America title: working moms with a talent for juggling family and job responsibilities, academics teaching the next generation of intellectuals, entrepreneurs taking great risks for great ideas, and creative mavens making their mark on our cultural landscape. Unfortunately those damsels don’t often get the media attention or recognition generated by her sisters in sequins and sashes—but they should! Maybe some of the women jockeying for the Miss America crown do represent these ideals, but we wouldn’t know it from the stereotypical pageant smiles and answers we see on television. I think if the contest allowed the viewers to get to know the character and motivations and accomplishments and dreams behind these women instead of just showing us an assembly line of perfectly poised and rehearsed mannequins, we might care a little more about the competition. If Miss America is meant to represent our highest ideals then it needs to get off the stage and into the real world to find the most beautiful, talented, and intelligent women our country has to offer. And if some of you damsels decide to go for the crown, let me know because I will totally tune in.

Jaye Fenderson is not competing for Miss America, but she is making a documentary film called First Generation.

if an opportunity is givento me i think i preffer miss to row down the isle with me.

Posted by Anonymous 10:49pm , June 4, 2008

I still like the Miss America pageant, but it sure isn;t like it used to be. I think it has gotten tothe ridiculos point when it all started with the de-throning of Vanessa Williams. My best friend is arried to Miss America 2000 and she represents what the pageant is all about. Just like Phyllis George Brown did several years ago--but we need to do some quick updates to get the pageant like it used to be.

Posted by Anonymous 2:06am , April 2, 2008

You know...I caught an episode of that show on TLC and it really bothered me. It was 22, 23, 24 year old women who were all saying that it only right to wait until marriage to have sex. Now I know that religious views dictate a lot of views concerning sexuality, but for some reason I find the "abstinence is the best policy" stance so outdated. So many young women today need real counseling on birth control and being in control of their sexuality - and don't get any positive messages from the media or from the entertainment industry (thank you Jamie Lynn Spears pregnant at 16). It bothers me that the Miss America contestants appeared to be reinforcing a "pure" notion of what makes a woman beautiful, and not necessarily reinforcing a "modern" view of what makes a woman strong - and beautiful.

Posted by Anonymous 6:20pm , January 16, 2008

I think it's time for a change: how about a Damsels in Success pageant? ;)

Posted by Jane 2:14pm , December 30, 2007

I completely agree that Miss America is a joke.

Posted by Anonymous 7:12pm , December 21, 2007

Goodness, I can't imagine that any self-respecting professional woman would watch Miss America and think of those women as her peers. It's a contest about beauty and THAT'S IT no matter how hard they try to act like they're looking for a well-rounded person.

Posted by Anonymous 7:45pm , December 20, 2007

If I have nothing else to do and Miss America is on, I'll watch it for fun but never because I think the pageant has some social value. I doubt that anyone could say with a straight face that these women are good role models. Sure, they talk about "their platform" blah blah blah but c'mon, they can't even answer a question that most intelligent high school kids can answer.

Posted by Liz 6:00pm , December 20, 2007

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